tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-31237372024-03-13T10:00:51.123-04:00Dear Blog...Love, LindsayLindsay Collinshttp://www.blogger.com/profile/11782597955844156580noreply@blogger.comBlogger741125tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-3123737.post-70514149236417656082014-08-02T08:57:00.000-04:002014-08-02T08:57:48.779-04:00Family of FiveThe last month of my pregnancy was no joke. For 18 days, I was on labor-alert. It all started with a middle of the night GI issue (TMI, I know), which falsely put into my head thoughts of "you'll have this baby early, before your due date" and those thoughts stuck around, day after day, until I was a week late and woke up to my husband saying "let's go to the water park with the kids today" as though that's a perfectly acceptable thing to do when you're 41 weeks pregnant. I mean, I guess if I hadn't been having contractions that morning when I woke up - which he didn't know about yet, at that point... he's not so cruel as to suggest the water park with a 4 year old and 1 year old while his 41 week pregnant wife is contracting - I would have been game to go. The previous weekend, we hit up the beach on both Saturday and Sunday. I even stuffed my 40 week pregnant belly into a swimsuit and got in the water with the kids a few times!<br />
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So this particular Sunday morning, when he suggested the water park and I hadn't yet told him about the contractions, I unfairly cursed at him in my head but in reality I said "I don't think the water park is gonna happen, I'm feeling crampy and contractiony." But at this point, since I was on day 18 of saying "maybe THIS will be the day" with feigning enthusiasm and confidence, he just slightly rolled his eyes at me and thought "suuuuuure" and suggested we walk downtown to get donuts instead. Now he was talking. The donuts part, I could get behind. The walking downtown part, not so much. It's about 1 mile one way, and my gut knew that was no bueno. I told him as much, and agreed to drive downtown and meet him and the girls there, as he was bound and determined to get out and get some fresh air.<br />
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I had a few contractions at the donut shop, but they were weak enough that I could manage to just slightly grimace instead of letting out primal, embarrassing noises. I'd save those for later. I texted my mom - who lives 45 minutes away - and waved the "probably in labor, but wait for my official call" flag. It only took about 30 minutes for me to follow it up with a "okay, yeah, why don't you come over" message.<br />
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She arrived, I asked her to snap a "last picture as a family of four" shot, which turned out like this, mid-contraction which I admit is kind of awkward to look at:<br />
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And then this, once the toddler joined us: </div>
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It was a gorgeous summer morning. We took off towards University of Michigan hospital and I cursed the city of Ann Arbor for their shitty roads. Nothing like driving over potholes while your vagina is stretching open to make you have strong opinions about where the road budget should put their money. Luckily for me, my water I didn't break in the car like it did with my last labor. </div>
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Arrival! Amen!</div>
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I was 6 cm when we arrived at the hospital, and even though this wasn't my first tango with childbirth, I was nonetheless relieved to get confirmation that I was indeed in labor. I think that inherently, I'm a rule-follower and someone who listens to authority, so I was sort of, I don't know, waiting for the authority figures - the doctors - to tell me I was in labor. I know that sounds silly, and I'm one of those people who's all "listen to what your body is telling you, no one knows your body better than you, you'll know what to do and when to do it"; sort of a wanna-be crunchy type. Not full blown, obviously, since I was waiting for the person with the medical degree to confirm that "yup, that horrible feeling of your vagina stretching open is indeed your vagina stretching open". Man, how many times should I work "vagina stretching open" into this post? </div>
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So once it was established I was in labor, my labor nurse asked me to get into the wheelchair to go into the delivery room. "What? You're not going to wheel me down there in this triage bed?" I literally asked out loud. Which was probably one of the ONLY perks of my last labor - that they wheeled me in the triage bed down to a delivery room when I was 10 cm dilated with a head about to be birthed when they checked me upon arrival.</div>
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So I found the energy to get into a wheelchair to make our way down to a legit room. It feels funny and lazy and dramatic to write that, but honestly I didn't think I could move from a hospital bed to a wheelchair. My labor nurse, who had this really dry sense of humor and communication style, promised me "I really think you have it in you" in this Darlene Conner voice. Can you picture that? I simultaneously wanted to throttle her but also kiss her. I loved the honesty but I really didn't want to commit to that level of cardiovascular activity when I had a much larger task at hand. </div>
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Once in my real room, I labored in the tub for a while. At one point, I painfully proclaimed my water had broken. "That, or I just totally forcefully peed in this tub." Enter the primal, embarrassing noises. I just didn't know what else to do but say different variations of Ouch, Ow, Oh Man, Fuck, Damn, Shit with different variations of moaning, yelling, groaning. So yeah, that happened. Then came the instruction disguised as a polite suggestion to get out of the tub and into the bed. I wasn't hoping for a water birth, and I wasn't necessarily opposed to getting out of the tub, but you guys had better rig up some make-shift construction equipment to haul my wet naked body from this tub to that hospital bed, is what I was thinking. Something along those lines. </div>
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By some magic voodoo force, I did indeed make it to the hospital bed. I have no idea how, I think I might have blacked out and they brought out catapult equipment, or just dragged me by my shoulders battlefield style. I don't really know. All I know is that I was on the bed, with my ass and back facing the doctors, hands up at the top of the bed, continuing with The Noises. I vaguely remember hearing another polite suggestion, this time coming from the young male resident, asking me to move into a laying-on-my-back position to check me. I just went right ahead and pretended I didn't hear him, and as I did, I heard my doctor whisper to the resident, "it's okay, she can deliver in that position, whatever feels best to her." I seriously could have kissed her. Seriously. I sent her a ESP high five. That was exactly what I wanted to and needed to hear. My wanna-be crunchy "birth however I want to birth" Mama spirit wanted to birth in some hippie yoga position. Funny though, because once I heard her say that, I did realize that I'd rather deliver in the typical "on your back" position, even though it felt like death to try to actually exist in that position while a baby was crowning. </div>
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So again by some voodoo magic, I was able to pull off the unimaginable physical feat of moving from kneeling to laying on my back. Soooo dramatic, I know. But I felt like that 100 lb gymnast who was on American Gladiator or whatever that show was that went around Facebook. I felt like an Ironman. And I hadn't even pushed the baby out yet!</div>
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So I finally make it into position, and this is the funny part, he was just born. Just like that. With one contraction, his head emerged, and the next, his body. He birthed himself, I swear. That's not to say it didn't hurt like a motherfucker, because trust me, it did. But the nice part was that I didn't really need to push. Out he came into this world, just like that. A darling little boy, a son. I was a mom again. My childbirth amnesia set in immediately, and my natural birth high took over. I took this picture shortly after he was born. </div>
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Here he is in his newborn nugget glorious state! Seven pounds of beautiful baby goodness. </div>
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My mom and mother-in-law brought the girls to the hospital to meet their baby brother and it was... crowded. We were elated but it was also... overwhelming. It was... requiring ellipses. ;)</div>
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But ultimately, it was really happy.</div>
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We were at the hospital for two nights due to my group b strep status, and we were a little bored by day two. We watched TV... we took so-bored-please-help-me selfies,</div>
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we introduced the baby to the glorious state of Michigan, </div>
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we took postpartum "look I'm just like Princess Kate LOLOLOLOL" selfies, </div>
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we were just excited to get home and out of our hospital prison. Well, let me tell you, that was a rookie mistake, the being bored and wanting to go home part, by two not-so-rookie parents. I don't know what we were thinking. Because the second we got home, we both secretly wished we were back in the hospital. The girls were so loud, so excited but so loud, they were totally off of their schedule, they were still adjusting to the fact that all of this "soon we'll have a baby" talk finally came true. I went upstairs for a postpartum cry and ended up napping for three hours. The first night home was a little rough. Hell, the first week was a bit wobbly, to say the least. But things got a lot better after that first week.</div>
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This baby does a lot of the following: </div>
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Occasionally he opens his eyes!</div>
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All in all, he is a keeper. We will keep him. The receipt on him has expired anyway, and we'd just get store credit for the lowest marked price anyway, but that matters zero amounts and I don't want to trade him for another model anyway. He is wonderful and lovey and soft and sweet and I love him so. <3</div>
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Lindsay Collinshttp://www.blogger.com/profile/11782597955844156580noreply@blogger.com3tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-3123737.post-83460245583966089572014-06-16T21:19:00.000-04:002014-06-16T21:20:02.630-04:00Tick, tick, tick...<div dir="ltr">Thought it was worth trying to squeeze in one post on pregnancy, seeing as how today marks my 40th week of pregnancy with my third child. Every morning I wake up and say to myself, "Could today be the day?" And then every night, once I go about my day and it turns out it wasn't the day, I wonder, "Will tonight be the night?" There is nothing that makes you feel more like a ticking time bomb than being nine months pregnant, I tell you what. <div> <br></div><div>I'm still working full time - so I get it from my coworkers when I walk into work. ("She's still here!")</div><div>I'm married - so I get it from my husband every morning before he leaves for work. ("Should I go to work today, honey?")</div> <div>I'm a daughter - so I know my mom and mother-in-law are waiting with baited breath. (If I send any text, everyone think it's the inevitable "I'm in labor" text.)</div><div>I'm a mom - to two toddler girls who are so (mostly-delightfully, occasionally-dreadfully) needy, that every physical move I make to try to meet their needs, I'm reminded of this other human child I have incubating inside of me. (Bathing two kids, leaning over the bathtub to try to wash sand out of their hair? Nearly impossible. Making lunches for daycare? I consider that a workout at this stage in the game; reaching for the lunchboxes is a stretch that leaves me breathless; moving quickly to get lunches made before I have to load the kids up in the car in the morning is my <span class="">cardio</span> that gives me a little brow sweat, if I'm keeping it real...)</div> <div><br></div><div>Needless to say, it's impossible to forget I'm this ticking time bomb.</div><div><br></div><div>To say I've been anxious about this upcoming birth would be the understatement of my year. My last daughter was delivered less than an hour after getting to the hospital. It was... an intense hour. Being that she's not even two years old yet, that hour is still fresh on my mind. And effing with my mind, to tell you the truth. I woke up in the middle of the night a couple of weeks ago with some... how shall I put it? Waste management stomach issues. I thought it was perhaps labor. Once I realized it wasn't, I still spent the rest of the night waking up every half-hour, with mild anxiety about what it would feel like when it really WAS labor. That night messed with my mind big time.</div> <div><br></div><div>Tonight, my husband let me know he preferred my three hour labor over my twenty-four hour labor. "It's like I got to stand there and support you, but then we just fast forwarded to the part where we get to hold the new little baby really quickly." <span class="">Uhhh</span> yeah. OK. Easy for you to say, buddy. He's a gem, though. He also likened this stage of parenthood (the waiting-for-your-wife-to-go-into-labor part) to Christmas. "It's kind of like I asked for a Nintendo for Christmas, and then I didn't get it. Except it'll be Christmas next week, and I WILL get the Nintendo." I think he should write a book, no? I can't say I blame the guy, though... I've dubbed myself The Mom Who Cried Baby. For the last two weeks (ever since the Waste Management night), I have gone to bed with closing comments such as "Well I have felt really run down, and walking is getting hard, and I'm <span class="">crampy</span>" only to wake up at my usual 4:30 AM to pee and let Nick know "nope, just peeing" and not to get too excited because he's definitely going to work today. So yes, I understand that he feels like he asked for a Nintendo and didn't get one. I have burst his bubble that Santa isn't real, but that The Stork is and to just be patient because The Stork will deliver his Nintendo soon.</div> <div><br></div><div>But I've got to keep my eye on the prize. The prize being the amazing privilege of getting to call myself Mom to another amazing child. And worry less about the short term labor stuff. I've got to remember the joy I get from watching my daughter play in a lake for the first time, or see a balloon in the far-off-distance and yell "<span class="">booooon</span>!", or have one fall and scrape her knee and the other run over and kiss it for her, or to hear my daughter tell Daddy, unprompted and out of nowhere, "I love you to the SKY and back!", or have a conversation with my four year old about babies and how they grow in your belly and "wow that's AMAZING" (and also, "Adopting a baby is so cool, <span class="">cuz</span> people can share their babies!" - we covered a lot during that talk), or to ask my 1.5 year old how her day was and she replies "Good. Pay ow-<span class="">sye</span>." These things never get old to me. They're such darlings and delights, I can't wait to meet this other little soul and see how he fits into our little family. Just as I said when Amelia was baking, I can't even imagine having another child, but I know from experience that once we meet him, we'll wonder how we ever really lived without him. I cannot wait.</div> </div> Lindsay Collinshttp://www.blogger.com/profile/11782597955844156580noreply@blogger.com0tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-3123737.post-56460580860466512512013-10-11T10:11:00.000-04:002013-10-11T10:12:20.705-04:00Note To Self: Write Down More Funny Things My Kids Say (A post from January 2013)<div dir="ltr"><div><i>Originally written 1/18/13, saved in my draft for who knows what reason. Claire was 2.75 yrs old. I'm glad I wrote this down, because I certainly wouldn't have remembered this on my own.</i> </div> <div><br></div><div>I need to quickly jot down these two things before I forget. </div> <div> </div> <div>Yesterday after school, Claire was showing me her Cabbage Patch doll Hayley. She said, "Hey Mama, wanna see her tattoo?" These dolls have the manufacturer's name written on the bums of the dolls... something I remember from 25+ years ago when I had a Cabbage Patch doll.</div> <div> </div> <div>"Sure. What does it say?"</div> <div> </div> <div>She looked at me with a look that said 'You're absurd.' Then said, "Nothing, Mama. Tattoos don't talk!"</div> <div> </div> <div>******************************************</div> <div> </div> <div>This morning on the short drive to school, Claire initiated a game of I Spy. Not quite the game you can play when one is driving, and when it's dark outside. I told her it was hard for me to see, so she initiated another game. <em>(Side note: I love that she initiates things now. She's so cool!) </em>"Okayyyyy..... how about we play Make An Animal Noise And I Guess It?" OK, I may not be the most creative mother... but whatever, she still likes this game. I just have to up the ante and think outside the <span style="LINE-HEIGHT:115%;FONT-FAMILY:'Arial','sans-serif';FONT-SIZE:10pt"><strike>box</strike> </span>farm.</div> <div> </div> <div>So I started with Ssssssss and she correctly guessed snake. I then imitated a really snarky and conniving cat. I thought it was super hard, but she guessed right away. She let me know I was throwing her slow pitches, and said "OK, my turn."</div> <div> </div> <div>She started her turn with a "Jump, jump." I guessed kangaroo, then rabbit. Both were met with enthusiastic and encouraging "Nope!"s, because she's awesome that way. After my second wrong guess, she had to reiterate and set me straight. "I said... CHOMP!" "Alligator!" "Yup Mama! Great job! You got it! You are so smart."</div> <div> </div> <div>My sweet little girl. </div> <div> </div> <div>Then she followed that up with, "OK, it's gonna be my turn again, I'm gonna say Chomp again and it will be a crocodile. OK? 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Now, I could get used to this. Save for the one day I took the girls to my mom's house for some Mimi/daughter/granddaughter bonding time, I took the girls to daycare every day, as usual. At first, I felt guilty about this. I only allowed that to last all of three minutes, though. You know what? I decided this was going to be my one week to be completely selfish. When else will I get this opportunity? Honestly, I doubt such luck will ever come my way again.<br />
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This week, I have: <br />
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Yes, I have ignored the budget completely. Yes, I have taken my kids to daycare while I was running around town, completely able to be spending time with them. Again -- I chose to be selfish this one time. They are fine - more than fine, really - at daycare and love it there, so don't feel bad for them for one second! This morning, the teacher had to bend down and whisper in Claire's ear "blow your Mama a kiss" because I was standing at the door, just waiting for it. She was too busy playing with her friends to bother acknowledging her mom's need for attention. :)<br />
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Now I realize this is an entirely unrealistic way to spend my time... sending my kids to daycare while I spend the day doing whatever I want. And truth be told, I think five days of it might be my max. (Okay, <em>ten</em> days would be fine.) I'd eventually get bored and lonely (I'm not a social butterfly, but there is only so much to do by yourself), I'd eventually miss my kids, I'd eventually drain the bank account. But damn. It sure was a nice week off. A great way to recharge and get ready for my new job. <br />
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Lindsay Collinshttp://www.blogger.com/profile/11782597955844156580noreply@blogger.com2tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-3123737.post-41299390466886612532013-01-11T09:05:00.000-05:002013-01-11T09:06:11.843-05:00A Quiet Night<div>It's been slowing down, but I do this about once a month. In the quiet of the night, before I fall asleep, I replay the scene of me and Claire and Murphy (the dog) running to the corner of our walk-out basement, just ten seconds before a tornado passed by us, causing a few hundred thousand dollars damage to our house, completely destroying four houses within eyesight. Meaning, shit was <em>scary</em> and not just "a little windy". </div> <div> </div> <div>I'm able to watch us with a birds eye view, almost like it's a vignette in a movie scene, like I'm watching myself, and not remembering it from my own perspective. </div> <div> </div> <div>Sometimes this replaying is prompted by hearing normal wind outside, other times it's because I've been dealing with insurance claims that week and thus the situation is in the front of my head, and then sometimes, like last night, it's just out of the blue. </div> <div> </div> <div>I was about ten minutes into it last night, Nick snoozing beside me, oblivious to my worries. (It's better that way.) I heard the creak of Claire's door open, a few pitter-patters across the narrow hallway to our door, and then my door creak open. </div> <div> </div> <div>I braced myself for a crying toddler; either a tantrum, begging and pleading (subconscious... see last post) to go back to bed, or a thirty minute process of putting her back to sleep. This has become the norm in the last month or two; Claire typically wakes up at night about 4 nights a week crying.</div> <div> </div> <div>Instead, last night, in the middle of my tornado rehashing session, Claire creaked open my door quietly. Before she had a chance to say anything, I quietly addressed her. Honestly, I was quite surprised she wasn't crying yet and wondered if I preemptively started talking to her, if I could distract her from crying. "Claire? What is it?" </div> <div> </div> <div>She said she had a bad dream, which in itself wasn't too surprising. This makes up about 40% of her given reasons for waking up in the middle of the night. But when I asked her what her dream was about, and she quietly answered me, still just talking like a normal kid and not wailing and crying, I was instantly chilled. "I had a bad dream about it's windy." <em>(sic)</em></div> <div> </div> <div>I sprung out of bed, hoping to not wake Nick, and we went back into her room, and I put her back into bed. Of course I held her first, held her so close. She put her head on my shoulder -- an act that any of you parents out there of toddlers know, is a rarity these days. She let me put her back into bed without a fight, and we just quietly talked about better things to dream about... going to the beach in Pentwater, riding in the wagon with friends, making sandcastles, and playing on the playground. </div> <div> </div> <div>She let me put her to bed without a fight. It was a quiet blip in the night, probably the quietest mid-night wake up we've had in months, but it spoke so loudly to me, my ears (and heart) are still ringing. I am a lucky, lucky woman.</div> Lindsay Collinshttp://www.blogger.com/profile/11782597955844156580noreply@blogger.com2tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-3123737.post-25988074371789389472013-01-10T22:18:00.001-05:002013-01-10T22:18:51.678-05:00Stuff<div>
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So I'm this moron who is a really slow learner. Like, they say you have to prepare yourself for less sleep once you have kids. Well with Claire (my 2.75 year old) -- I hit the sleeping kid jackpot. She slept for 10 hours straight starting around 2 months old. With the exception of not sleeping in on the weekend, not too much changed when I had my first child.</div>
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Lindsay Collinshttp://www.blogger.com/profile/11782597955844156580noreply@blogger.com3tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-3123737.post-50882939204679764982012-12-20T12:50:00.002-05:002012-12-20T12:50:38.532-05:00I Need Help From The InternetDear Internet, I need help.<br />
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<strong><u>Question 1.)</u></strong> <br />
How/where do you keep your addresses for people? I think an address book would be futile for me, I would probably use the pages for grocery lists or scrap paper while on the phone with the insurance company or use it to wipe a boogie from my 2 year old's index finger in a pinch. <br />
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Here is my current method for addresses: first, I have an email from my MIL from 2008 in which she emailed me addresses for my husband's extended family. So I typically do a Gmail search for any of those peeps to find that email from 2008.<br />
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I do the same for some of my extended family. I have a similar email from myself (and to myself) with some other addresses on it.<br />
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Next, I search for individual emails from people, if I know I've emailed them with the typical "hey, what's your address?" question. <br />
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Lastly, whitepages dot com. Which is soooo lame. And also tempting to click over to the paid link that suggests "hey, want to know EVERYTHING about so-and-so? including their deepest darkest secrets, such as what they watch on tv and where they spend their money?"<br />
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I need a better method. Not coincidentally, I write this post on a 10 minutes hiatus of writing Christmas cards. In other news, look at how dapper we look in black! This was taken back in September, when my sweet baby Amelia was 7 days old. Photo is by <a href="http://www.bluepeachphotography.com/" target="_blank">Tanya Dunn</a> and I'll share some of those precious newborn nakey bum ones in a later post. Sigh. So sweet. End tangent!<br />
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Do you think it's better to have an idea to do something nice for someone and then not follow through with it, or not to have the idea at all? If the end result is this: don't do anything for a person. Wow, poorly worded. Let's try it again. <br />
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<span style="font-size: x-small;">{Me, thinking in my head:}</span> I wonder what Suzy Q is up to? I bet she would love it if I sent her a mug with some fancy hot cocoa and some even fancier homemade marshmallows with a sweet little note in it from the girls. <span style="font-size: x-small;">{Fast forward three weeks.} {I never send the gift I so Pinterestly-imagined in my head.}</span><br />
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<span style="font-size: x-small;">{I don't think about sending Suzy Q a gift at all.}</span><br />
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Which is better? Example 1 is sooooooooooooooooooo me. Like, I have these ideas of nice things to do for people (okay, like this actually only happens about once per quarter), but then I find I rarely do them. Then I berate myself for never following through with anything, and I wonder if it's just nicer to NOT think of it in the first place. Because in Example 1, I think of a nice thing, but I'm too selfish with my own time and my own laziness and my lack of motivation to actually do it. Obviously this isn't selfishness on the surface, but it's underlying and therefore makes me kind of a bad person. <br />
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What are you making for dinner? I need ideas, and Pinterest is too overwhelming, even though I finally caved and <a href="http://pinterest.com/lindscollins329/" target="_blank">joined</a>. Here's what my fridge looks like... yeah... I know. How do I feed my family with that stuff? It's all basically non-edibles, right? This is the un-Pinteresty fridge imaginable. Clearly you can tell I'm getting a Pinterest complex, am I right? Oh well. Throw me a recipe or two my way, one that's your best go-to recipe that is fast, delicious, fresh, easy, doesn't use spices or pastes or vegetables that I've never heard of, and that my two year old will eat. What's that? You have <em>three</em> recipes that meet that criteria?! Well, send them all my way! (Haha. No. Mac and cheese from a box doesn't count.)<br />
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Lindsay Collinshttp://www.blogger.com/profile/11782597955844156580noreply@blogger.com2tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-3123737.post-86681118966452604192012-11-20T20:53:00.000-05:002012-11-20T20:53:13.832-05:00Back to WorkYesterday I went back to work. I decided to go back part-time for the remainder of my maternity leave, to avoid going back full time cold turkey. Knowing myself pretty well, I knew it would be stressful for me to go back full time with two kids. It's mostly due to logistics (how will I <em>get</em> them to daycare, both of them, plus myself ready for work by 8:00?!), but also due to "now I know what it's like to stay at home with your kids and I find it nice" stress.<br />
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So, if you're wondering how the first day back went... here's what my car looked like:<br />
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It took me, no joke, like an hour to prepare the car. I did most of it the night before, and threw in the lunches/refrigerated stuff the morning of. It stressed me out so much, <em>the logistics</em>, that I didn't want to just wing it the first morning back. How I am going to do this every morning, I haven't a clue. Yesterday was my day home, so I work tomorrow, and I'm already fretting at 8:37 pm the night before about the logistics of the following morning. I am sure that with time, I'll get into a rhythm. But if I'm being honest, timeliness is my worst un-habit. Or, I should say, I am constantly late. And having two chitlins (SP?) only aids in my bad habit.<br />
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(Speaking of bad habits... I recently discovered <a href="http://www.asianfoodgrocer.com/product/glico-chocolate-pocky-1-41-oz?utm_source=google&utm_medium=base&gclid=CMibyOf23rMCFQpgMgodxzEA6g" target="_blank">Pocky</a>. I can eat a pack like it's my <em>job</em>. In fact... I just polished off a pack. Ugh. But also: YUM.)<br />
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So another facet of my foray back to work: my outfit yesterday was horrendous. I had on the following colors, ALL IN ONE OUTFIT: brown, white, navy, gray, black, green. I didn't even realize that I looked like a hot mess until I got to work. At least my clothes fit. Had they been ill-fitting, I probably would have gone home on my lunch hour to change, no joke. Since my vanity doesn't allow me to photograph myself looking bad (it's policy), I conjured up this facsimile in Microsoft Paint instead. It's close enough. Actually, I think this outfit looks better than the real deal. So there's that.<br />
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Lindsay Collinshttp://www.blogger.com/profile/11782597955844156580noreply@blogger.com2tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-3123737.post-67239132879739945242012-11-07T22:48:00.002-05:002012-11-07T22:48:56.621-05:00Thinking Like A Two Year Old<div>
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This morning, she woke up screaming, running out of her room, shrieking that Eli had stolen her shoe. I had to hug her and console her and rub her back and assure her that her jelly shoes are in fact still in her shoe bucket, and that it was just a dream and that Eli didn't really steal her shoes and then run them over with his lawnmower. She was nearly inconsolable over that.</div>
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This morning, she also shrieked when she saw my newly inflated exercise ball sitting in my room. As in, she ran away screaming from it. I had an exercise ball that I purchased in anticipation of her birth, and used it for a few hours while I was laboring at home with her. The exercise ball remained in our house over the course of the next two years, until the tornado blew it away (literally). She was always terrified of that thing, and I never really knew why, or explored why. </div>
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So when I bought a new one in anticipation of Baby Sister's birth (any day now, OMG, another post) and blew it up last night to see if it could get things going (spoiler: it didn't), she shrieked when she was it this morning and again, I was stumped. This time, however, I tried to figure out why. I have come to realize that trying to empathize with other people's fear, even if you don't fear the thing yourself, goes a long way. Mostly I've learned that as someone with fears herself (as in... other people doing the empathizing with ME), so I thought I'd give it a whirl with Claire. </div>
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At first I thought she was afraid to sit on it and bounce on it... I vaguely recollected that she had tried rolling around on it and had fallen off with the last exercise ball. So I held her hands as she sat on it and bounced. That wasn't really the issue, though. She didn't seem to mind that part. So I went about my morning, and was drying my hair when she ran into the bathroom, shrieking. "I pushed the ball down the hall and it bumped into the wall......" Big blue eyes staring back at me, huge, full of fear. If I was feeling lazy, this is where I'd typically say (in my head) "uhhh OKAY" and answer her with a "Uh-huh Honey... okay..."</div>
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But this morning I set down the hair dryer and went to investigate with her. She barely wanted to peek her head around the corner, lest she see the scary exercise ball. "See? It's down there, on the wall..." she said. "It's gonna get me."</div>
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I tried showing it to her a couple of times, lightly pushing it into the wall and explaining "See? It's bouncing back now and rolling toward me. But it's just a ball, it's not alive, it's not coming to get me, it's just rolling." And it clicked. All along she thought the ball was coming to get her. Yes, she's crazy smart, and can school me in many different ways, but sometimes I'm reminded that she's only two and she doesn't know everything. And it's a pretty neat feeling to see her learning before your own two eyes.</div>
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<em>[Note: this was written a couple months ago, but was sitting as a draft, never published. I'm posting it for posterity's sake.]</em></div>
Lindsay Collinshttp://www.blogger.com/profile/11782597955844156580noreply@blogger.com0tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-3123737.post-70625026850556000012012-11-07T22:23:00.002-05:002012-11-07T22:23:42.656-05:00Attention to Details: Version Two-Year-Old Claire wants the most bizarre details when I tell her a story. I understand the want for details; I'm always asking Nick for mundane details when he gets off the phone with someone, or he gets back from an engagement that interests me, or just a regular old work day. It's probably why I also love to read other peoples (strangers) blogs. <br />
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Last night I was making up a story for her. I am... not good at making up stories. Here's how this story went:<br />
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"Once there were two little girls, Claire and Amelia. They were sisters." She didn't like this. <br />
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"I don't want a story about me and Amelia!"<br />
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"Okay, two little girls, Margo and Betsy. They wanted to go outside and play, so they asked their Mama if they could."<br />
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"What color is the Mama's hair? And her hands?"<br />
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After answering the questions and fumbling around some more to add to the admittedly boring story, I mentioned the girls were riding their bike. Claire let me get about two seconds into that foray of the story before stopping me. "What color are their helmets?" <br />
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I love her curiosity and attention to details. It just cracks me up. What must be going on in that sweet, smart little head of hers?<br />
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Another funny example was this morning when I presented her with a new yogurt. I typically buy a huge container of plain yogurt and sweeten it myself with some jam. In a pinch, or when I'm feeling lazy, I buy the kind that's merchandised for the kiddos. She was instantly enthralled with this new yogurt. I think she especially loves things that are her size.<br />
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I opened the fridge to decide what to give her for breakfast, and she instantly spotted the small containers. "What's that orange container?" (Yes, she called it a container. Her vocabulary is so awesome. End brag.)<br />
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"Yes, please. What color is the top?"<br /><br />"The top is pink." It was pink with white polka dots. I showed her the top, but only said it was pink.<br />
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"Oh. (Long Pause. Serious face. She was thinking.) And what flavor is in the orange container with pink top with white polka dots?"<br />
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I don't know what it was about this exchange, but my heart was just beaming with motherly love for this funny, strange, curious, lovely little kiddo. She's just so uniquely herself, and I love her little questions about the most random of details. She really pays attention to things and let me tell you... you can't get ANYTHING past her. Lindsay Collinshttp://www.blogger.com/profile/11782597955844156580noreply@blogger.com1tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-3123737.post-18326140258188013582012-11-04T22:52:00.002-05:002012-11-04T22:52:45.586-05:00These Are A Few Of My Favorite ThingsChristmas is fast approaching! I am one of the types of people that gets excited to see Christmas trees going up in stores on November 1st (or earlier), rather than the type of person who gets irate and cranky-pants over the whole situation. And each year, I proclaim <em>this </em>year to be the year it's not about presents, and more about presence -- spending time with each other, enjoying the company of family and friends, and the abundance of food and camaraderie.<br />
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While that's a nice sentiment and all, it never really pans out to skip the gift-giving altogether. Let's face it: Christmas is about commerce. There <em>is</em> some satisfaction in giving (and receiving!) so I should give up on that notion of no-gifts-Christmas and just accept it for what it's worth! (Lots and lots of money, that's what it's worth.)<br />
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So, in anticipation of Christmas shopping for loved ones, I am trying to reflect on gifts of past Christmases to try to determine the anatomy of a great gift. Here are my top three gifts I have received in recent years. <br />
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<strong><u>Ugg Slippers</u></strong><br />
I simply asked for slippers, and my sister surprised me when she gifted me with Ugg brand slippers. This was several years ago - maybe four or five? - and we're still going strong, me and my Uggs. Some people have their comfy jeans, worn in just right? I, uh, I have my slippers.<br />
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Yes, it's true. I got a Neti Pot for Christmas one year. In fact, this was a gift I half-jokingly asked for from my boyfriend (now husband). This was the first Christmas that we were a couple. Not including one of our first dates which happened to be my extended family's Christmas party that my parents were hosting at their house. True story. No, that's not fast/forward/awkward to ask a guy you've hardly gone out with twice to come to your family Christmas party, not at all... I digress... (Hey, we're married with two kids now, so, it all worked out just fine, thank you...) <br />
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So I asked my boyfriend for a Neti Pot because I have issues with my sinuses. Perhaps some young twenty-somethings exchange sexier gifts, it's entirely possible. (<em>"No, Lindsay, it's entirely certain!"</em> you're thinking.) But think of how many sinus infections I have staved off with that thing! It's the gift that keeps on giving! Still use that thing to this very day. It may be one of my favorite bathroom accessories I use.<br />
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My MIL gifted me with this kitchen gadget last year. Also known as a 'stick blender', for those none-the-wiser. See, I love to make soups. (Gee, do I sound like an old bitty or what?) Lots of times, soups call for blending in a blender in batches. I am nothing if not a horribly messy cook, using no less than 50% MORE cooking/baking/kitchen tools/gadgets/utensils than necessary. And I am not one of these people who CLEANS UP AS SHE GOES, much to the dismay of my neat-freak husband. Using a blender to blend soups takes up about 3 or 4 more items that require washing (often by hand). An immersion blender only takes the 1 item (the blender itself), so this is a WIN as I loathe washing dishes.<br />
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So what is it that makes these gifts so awesome? For the slippers, it was a case of <em>QUALITY</em>. Don't skimp on gifts. Let's say you decide to spend $75 on someone. Rather than get three $25 gifts, buy one $75 gift, with the caveat that it's a high-quality item, not an inexpensive item you get for a steal. For example, $75 slippers (high-quality item, as slippers don't typically cost that much) vs. diamond necklace (precious jewelry shouldn't be that cheap, it must be poor quality).<br />
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For the Neti Pot, it was a case of getting someone something they <em>WANT</em>, even if you can't appreciate it. I asked for this sort of as a joke, but deep down I really wanted it. (Yes, I know these are, like, $12.99 and I could have purchased one for myself at any point in time...) Nick was like "WTF" but he got it for me anyway. And for the record, HE still uses it to this day, as well. <br />
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And lastly, the blender was one of those <em>PRACTICAL</em> gifts that, while not necessarily a luxury item, is something I use and love dearly on a regular basis, as it makes my life easier, and who doesn't love that? I mean? Priceless.<br />
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So... it's easy to come up with a list of items that fit the bill for yourself. But finding items like these for other people, that's where it's a challenge. Better put on my thinking cap, and get the credit cards out!<br />
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I know it's early but you're lying if you say you haven't thought about something you want Santa to bring you. Indulge me, and tell me what it is you want. : )Lindsay Collinshttp://www.blogger.com/profile/11782597955844156580noreply@blogger.com1tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-3123737.post-56658508044967303162012-11-03T18:07:00.003-04:002012-11-03T18:07:41.682-04:00Turning Into My MotherYou hear people muse about turning into their own mother. Typically this is said with some, how do I say, chagrin, am I right? <br />
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I will be the first to admit... I am turning into my mother. Let me count the ways.<br />
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1.) The second my husband gets home from work, he starts foraging in the cupboards for snacks. Wait, I stand corrected. First he gets out of his work clothes into some jeans and a t-shirt. I personally never do this... I'll stay in my work clothes until bedtime. I have come to realize that people who change out of their work clothes after work are <em>passionate</em> about this topic. Nick would rather die a fiery death than stay in his work pants and shirt one minute longer than he has to. Aside over... <br />
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The foraging for snacks drives me insaaaaane when I've spent an hour making dinner. This was something my mom used to say all the time during my childhood. (And, ahem, post-college adulthood in which I squatted with them to avoid getting a place of my own and having to pay rent and thus spent my first-job measly paycheck at the local watering hole with my BFF on a weekly basis.) "Stop snacking, dinner will be ready in five minutes." But to that cupboard I'd go, and then sit at the dinner table and eat two bites of her meal. Now the thought of this literally makes me twitch with annoyance, and I have that "Ohhh NOW I GET IT" moment and make a mental note to apologize to my mom for all those years of five-o-clock snacking.<br />
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OK, well, I guess I didn't fully think this post out, as I can't even come up with a number two. I guess there is only one recent example I can think of in which I proclaim "I AM TURNING INTO MY MOTHER!"<br />
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2.) DOG HAIR. OH EM GEE, THE DOG HAIR. When we rebuilt our house this summer, we were presented with several options, one of which was flooring. I mulled over the idea of going with an all-hardwood downstairs. I was afraid of the dog hair, though. Dog hair is insanely visible on hardwood floor. Despite this, I took a crazy pill and decided to go with it. (REGRET CITY!) (Not only dog hair, but rugs are not cheap!) AND LET ME TELL YOU. I am driven bat-shit-crazy-insane by this dog hair. Swiffer gets, like, a B- when it comes to keeping the dog hair under control. I am, quite frankly, too lazy to do anything else (such as research other cleaning options) and simply resort to bitching about it instead. This sums up the last four weeks of my life, by the way. Me pulling out my hair (haha, punny!) about dog hair collecting on every inch of my first floor. So, I guess that's another way I'm becoming more like my mom... the omnipresent grumble about dog hair. <br />
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Did you know that my mom turned 56 years old a couple of weeks ago, and that on her birthday she ran her 30th marathon? Does your 56 year old mother run marathons for fun? Pretty bad-ass, right? It was also her PR in this particular marathon (her 8th time running it) and her 2nd fastest marathon ever. My dad and sister made her this awesome sign and my dad held it up for her at various points along the course. (My sister ran the marathon as well.) (My whole family is pretty awesome.)<br />
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After a half hour of handing out candy, I decided I had to take Claire at least to our neighbors, so I could get an official "first trick-or-treating" photo. We went to three houses and came home. I went inside to warm up the baby, and when I returned to the garage a few minutes later, Claire was standing by the candy bowl and cried "All the candy is gone, Mama!" with sadness in her voice. <br />
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My initial thought was, "Oh, she thinks that huge bowl of candy was hers, and she's sad it's gone." No, I was wrong. My husband had given out CLARIE'S (three pieces of) candy to trick-or-treaters because our candy had run out. <br />
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"There were like 20 kids here, waiting for candy!" was his excuse. :) Me personally, I would have said, "Sorry kids, closing up shop" and left them hanging, rather than give out MY OWN CHILD'S candy. You know, all three pieces of it. <br />
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So we ventured out again, because I would not let this high-fructose-corn-syrup experience go by without my two-year-old participating!<br />
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She ended up replacing her loot and then some, so Halloween was saved.<br />
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<br />Lindsay Collinshttp://www.blogger.com/profile/11782597955844156580noreply@blogger.com0tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-3123737.post-35098533681789164822012-10-29T09:38:00.000-04:002012-10-29T09:38:03.065-04:00First Week As A (Temp) SAHMI'm getting a brief glimpse of stay-at-home-mom life. Last week, Claire started going to daycare every other day. I kept her in daycare full-time until then, even though I was home with Baby Amelia. It would have been nearly impossible for me to care for both of them at once, without compromising my healing and recovery from childbirth. That sounds very dramatic (I didn't even have a c-section and I'm talking about healing!) but let me tell you. It's no joke, having a baby. So I packed her up every morning, baby in tow, and took her to school to be watched after by her Daytime Moms.<br />
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So I'm only one week in, but hoo-boy. Now I get why SAHMs feel they get a bad rap sometimes. What I mean is... I always believed it when women said "WE WORK! We just don't get paid." You know, during the whole "working mom" conversation, in which it sounds as if "working moms" are saying that SAHMs don't work because of the wording of our titles. I never thought that, I have always thought SAHMs do indeed have full, busy, not-always-fun days. But now I UNDERSTAND it. I empathize. And at the same time, I feel I am finally validated as a mother, in some weird way. I feel like....... being a "working mom" up until last week, I never really earned my mom badge until I spent some time as a SAHM. <br />
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I say I was a working mom up until last week because Maternity Leave and SAHM are quite different things. The first five weeks with Amelia were Maternity Leave. This meant I was parked squarely on the couch, just watching TV and nursing all day long. Occasionally I would, say, unload the dishwasher. Perhaps on a Tuesday I would fold a load of laundry. Not much else, at least not during the daytime when the baby was awake.<br />
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Now on the days when I have both Claire and Baby Amelia (I can't just call her Amelia.... I have to call her Baby Amelia... it's like a lisp) home with me, I feel like I'm a SAHM. Which means, it's a work-day. Yes, there is still some couch-sitting, and there is definitely still some nursing, but there's a ton of housework (dishes and laundry galore), a ton of activity planning, a ton of cleaning up from meals and snacks and activities and playtime and diapers and pull-ups and underwear (potty-training on top of it all!), and there's cooking dinner, and swiffering the blessed hardwood floors because holy shit if there isn't dog hair all over the floors AGAIN even though I just did this, I am going to become a mad-woman over this dog hair situation. (And that was this blog's longest and worst run-on sentence.)<br />
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Anyway... don't take the above verbal vomit to mean I am not LIKING my foray into this new, albeit temporary, role. In fact, I kinda think I love it. Which I'm surprised to realize SURPRISED ME. I mean, why was I shocked to realize I enjoyed spending the whole day with my two beautiful daughters? <br />
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But like I said, I feel somewhat validated now... like I finally earned a little bit of street cred in the mom world or something. I won't lie... I sometimes feel slightly judged by SAHMs when I disclose that I send my daughter to daycare full-time due to my office job. See? I can't even say "when I disclose that I'm a working mom" because I feel like using those words discredits what SAHMs do every day, which is still "work". <br />
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This post is going nowhere fast, so I'm going to end it here. The last week has been awesome, and I'm going to try my best to enjoy this precious time while I have it. I need to formulate some of the awesomeness that is Two-Year-Old Claire here on this bloggy thing, because let me tell you... she is so awesome. But later... my babe child is wailing for me, duty calls.Lindsay Collinshttp://www.blogger.com/profile/11782597955844156580noreply@blogger.com2tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-3123737.post-37456260586728148922012-10-08T13:03:00.005-04:002012-10-08T13:03:52.183-04:00AmeliaI'm a mom again.<br />
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Three weeks ago, my darling Amelia was born. Three weeks man. At times it feels like a minute ago, at times I can't remember what it was like just with one.<br />
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I expected everything to be a carbon copy of my experience with Claire. Going into labor a week early, laboring for 24 hours, birthing this sweet little E.T. looking (a <em>beautiful</em> E.T., mind you...) creature.<br />
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Instead, I was surprised with an on-time baby (why am I even using these "early" and "on-time" labels... I don't even know, as I've never believed in "due dates"), a 3 hour labor, and a completely different baby. This one is not a carbon copy of her sister Claire, she's a carbon copy of her Mama, Lindsay.<br />
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Three hour labor... yes, I said it. I woke up on my "due date" (there I go again...) with no signs of labor, so we did what most normal people do when they're 40 weeks pregnant... they go to Ikea.<br />
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OK, I make it sound more dramatic than it actually was. In reality, it was a Sunday, and we got there just when they were opening, and we had a very specific shopping list. We were in and out (including a frozen yogurt!) in 40 minutes, a new record. (Also: I will NEVER go to Ikea again unless it's Sunday when they open. Empty, I tell you, EMPTY! A Scandinavian miracle!)<br />
<br />We rounded off the shopping trip with a stop at Plum Market. During both trips, I had a few contractions here and there, nothing to write home about. It didn't even dawn on me to call my sister (our designated Claire-sitter) to warn her "this might be the day". The contractions seemed too sporadic and not even close to consistent.<br />
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The day went on... Ikea furniture assembled (I do believe it was our 12th and 13th piece of Ikea furniture my poor husband put together post-tornado), a trip to Target and Whole Foods under our belts (I apparently was trying to shop my baby out of my yute), and we retired home to watch the Lions game. I laid on the couch while Nick cheered on our football friends, and eventually fell asleep for almost the entire game. <br />
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<em>My theory</em> is that perhaps I went into labor during said "nap" during this 8:00 pm football game. Not that I woke up or anything, but when the game was over and Nick woke me up to go upstairs to bed at 11:30 pm, I think I made it to bed without noticing contractions or anything (I'm a pretty deep sleeper and thus zombie-walked to bed in a stupor, I'm sure). Less than an hour after going to bed, I woke up at 12:30 am with contractions. <br />
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I stayed in the bathroom for about 1/2 hour timing the contractions, and was like "well dang, that hurts" and "well dang, there's another one" and then "well dang, I'm going to take a shower because OW".<br />
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So I woke up Nick to let him know "hey, no big deal, I'm just taking a shower at 1 am because OW" and he was sort of like "eh okay? are you having a baby?" and I replied "don't know?" <br />
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It only took about 5 minutes of the shower before Nick made the Executive Decision to call my sister, because we were having a baby. I don't know what it is about me, but I was so indecisive about whether it was happening or not. HELLO DENIAL. Being that my sister lives 45 minutes away, I'm so glad he called her when he did. <br />
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I spent another hour laboring in the bathroom, draping myself over an exercise ball every 2-3 minutes. Eventually I started to sound like a zoo animal. I won't lie, I was kind of embarrassed on my own behalf. I know having a baby is this natural, albeit primal, mammalian thing to do, and I was definitely playing the part, but I was muy embarrassed at my "owwwwww" moans. <br />
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So, 30 minutes laboring by myself. 60 minutes laboring with my husband up while my sister drove over here. We're talking 90 minutes total at home from the time I wake up in hard-core labor (without ever really being in non-hard-core labor) and then we're off to the hospital.<br />
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There was no way in HAIL I was going to SIT in the front seat, because remember? OW? So I laid in the 3rd row of my minivan (hello I'm a mom of two now, of course I have a minivan) and made more embarrassing sounds every 2 minutes or so. With about 5 minutes left of the ride to the hospital, my water broke in a gush. Lovely! Once we got there, Nick grabbed a wheelchair but like with the car, I was like "nope, not sitting on that" and ended up kneeling on it backwards. I don't think I opened my eyes more than three times between leaving my house and giving birth. I was just In The Zone trying to survive each contraction (have I mentioned it before? OW!) and trying not to die. <br />
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So now we're approaching 2 hours of labor. 1.5 hours at home, and about 1/2 hour for the drive there and the ride up to triage.<br />
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In triage, they checked me within a few minutes, and told me I was complete. Which means, labor is just about over & done with. UM, HELLO, WHAT? I mean, thank you for saying that, because if you told me I was 4 cm or some bullshit number like that or something, I would have died from pain. (And gotten all Hollywood and been one of those woman screaming and begging for the Anesthesiologist NOWWWW.) But of course, the fact that I was thinking those things means of course I was done, the worst part was over, now it's just time to have a baby.<br />
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<a href="http://1.bp.blogspot.com/-ImXIIOS2cCQ/UHMHDwz1GkI/AAAAAAAAAN0/UrqVqnPBpcI/s1600/Amelia+newborn.jpg" imageanchor="1" style="clear: left; float: left; margin-bottom: 1em; margin-right: 1em;"><img border="0" height="320" src="http://1.bp.blogspot.com/-ImXIIOS2cCQ/UHMHDwz1GkI/AAAAAAAAAN0/UrqVqnPBpcI/s320/Amelia+newborn.jpg" width="191" /></a>Now, I think they really did get kind of Hollywood on me, because I swear (and this was probably the 3rd time I actually opened my eyes to see what was going on around me) they RAN my gurney down the hall. I swear I think I felt my hair blowing in the wind. It's not like I was pushing the baby out or anything? Nonetheless, I got a kick out of that. I kind of felt like a Big Deal on the maternity wing, if that's possible.<br />
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In actuality, I think I spent a total of 30 minutes in triage, between kneeling on the bed for a few contractions waiting for the resident, to getting checked, to getting admitted and what not. So in the 2-2.5 hours I was awake and in labor, I got to 10 cm and "ready to push". W. T. F.<br />
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The rest is pretty much storybook... push, push, baby. Crying, sweet, baby. My first thought was "OMG, she's different from Claire!" because like I said, I was expecting a version two point oh of my first daughter. <br />
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<a href="http://3.bp.blogspot.com/-qUWZFayZyGI/UHMHG-GIY6I/AAAAAAAAAOE/Mo-DhzJkrHY/s1600/photo.JPG" imageanchor="1" style="clear: right; float: right; margin-bottom: 1em; margin-left: 1em;"><img border="0" height="320" src="http://3.bp.blogspot.com/-qUWZFayZyGI/UHMHG-GIY6I/AAAAAAAAAOE/Mo-DhzJkrHY/s320/photo.JPG" width="240" /></a>But this little sweetie pie, she had my rosy complexion, my fair skin, my red hair. She nursed immediately, and was easy to console. In a matter of 3 short hours (and 40 long weeks...), our family grew. <br />
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"Life as we knew it" had already changed when we became parents the first time, so the experience wasn't as... drastic and life-changing as our first go around. But the love was just as plenty, the awe at the miracle of life renewed, and the feeling that life as we know it just got a lot better.<br />
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Lindsay Collinshttp://www.blogger.com/profile/11782597955844156580noreply@blogger.com4tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-3123737.post-20954683628344243972012-08-19T01:31:00.001-04:002012-08-19T01:31:22.599-04:00First Things First <div><p>First things first... mama finally got herself a smart phone! Only a few years late to the game. Better late than never right? Except now that I have the world at my fingertips, I realize... how small my world actually is. It's not like I'm getting more emails or calls or tweets or anything. Now I just get to constantly monitor how small my world is.<br>
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<p>Anyway. I highly do not recommend my weekend to anyone else. 36 weeks pregnant... husband leaves for international bachelor party (OK I added the international part for dramatics, but it's true as they did go to Toronto, which is a five hour drive), so I'm flying solo with fetus baby, two year old, and stir crazy dog. Have to pack up our apartment and move to a hotel because the lease here is up but house isn't ready for us to move back into just yet. About a week left! Five months and counting since the tornado. Anyway, stressed doesn't begin to cover my weekend, also see: sore, tired, and did I mention 36 weeks pregnant? Oh yeah I did. That.</p>
<p>Here's my self reminder that things could be so much worse. Uhhhh. They could be. My morbid mind could come up with 100 things that are worse than my weekend, so I'll stop complaining.</p>
<p>And go back to checking my non-friends on FB and refresh twitter on my handy new little cellular data device I scored today. </p>
<p>Here's a pic of Claire cuz why the hell not. Love this kid something fierce. Good thing I was able to capture "Baby's first Gogurt" via pic. One for the baby book for sure...</p>
<br/><img src='http://lh4.ggpht.com/-fRUzoydoPNw/UDB6KLjLjEI/AAAAAAAAANY/zWgNvE05um0/IMG_20120818_111937.png' /></div>Lindsay Collinshttp://www.blogger.com/profile/11782597955844156580noreply@blogger.com0tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-3123737.post-50939173603825525742012-06-07T10:07:00.000-04:002012-06-07T10:08:20.483-04:00Life Lately<div>I keep meaning to start a baby book or a journal or something for Claire. Let's just say it's on my mental to-do list which is yay high {picture me stretching my short and stubby arms as far as they can sadly reach}. </div> <div> </div> <div>So let's just document on ye olde blog here, shall we?</div> <div> </div> <div>Yesterday morning, while Claire was getting her first film of toddlery milky smell on her (moms out there know what I mean... that first layer of toddler stench, right?) while eating her morning yogurt, I just had a burst of love while looking at her and said "Claire? I love you." and she kept her head down, steadfast on the yogurt task at hand. "I love you, Mama." My heart swelled, as it is wont to do when my 2 year old tells me she loves me. Then she piped up again. "I love you Murphy. I love you Baby Sister." OK, if that doesn't make you want to weep with motherly pride, then I don't want to know you. </div> <div> </div> <div>Claire seems slightly jealous of Baby Sister thus far, but maybe I'm just projecting this onto her. She doesn't like to talk much about the baby, but then again, she must not get it all that much. We've been talking about Baby Sister for months now, she probably thinks we're all talk, no walk. I asked her the other day what Baby Sister's name should be. She was confused. "Umm. Sister!" Once I thought about it, it makes sense. We call(ed) her Baby Claire, and we call other babies Baby Grace, for example. So all along we've been saying Baby Sister, with sister just being the placeholder word. Whereas she thinks Sister is the name. I thought it was cute. I tried to explain that we could call her lots of different names. The one she finally suggested is Buddha. No idea where Buddha came from. No, we don't practice eastern religions. Or any religions for that matter. </div> <div> </div> <div>Speaking of which. After the tornado, when most of Claire's books were destroyed, we got a plethora of books donated to us by her daycare friends. (Again, cue waterworks/heart swelly feelings.) One of the books is about Christmas, and tells the story of Jesus' birth. For being a kid who had never heard of Jesus before this book, she is downright obsessed with Baby Jesus. In fact, she was studying the tag on her washcloth the other day, and saw the Gerber baby face on the tag. "Baby Jesus!!!" She was so shocked that Baby Jesus appeared in places other than her beloved book. Every night, she wants to read the Baby Jesus book. She even fills in the words for us. It'll go like this:</div> <div>"Then Mary and.... " </div> <div>"Joseph!"</div> <div>"had to walk all night long to..."</div> <div>"Bethlehem!"</div> <div>"And when they got there they were very..."<br>"Tired!"</div> <div>"but they had no place to sleep. So they slept in a..."</div> <div>"Stable!"</div> <div>"And that night..."</div> <div>"Baby Jesus was born!"</div> <div> </div> <div>It's pretty damn cute, even if it is about Baby Jesus, who I don't really have much else to teach her about except the night he was born.</div> <div> </div> <div>My last little blurb is about a little ritual that Nick started with Claire. I think he got it from the book The Help. He basically tells Claire some affirmations and she repeats them. It's so precious. It typically goes like this:</div> <div>"I'm pretty."</div> <div>"I pretty!"</div> <div>"I'm funny."<br>"I funny!"</div> <div>"I'm smart."</div> <div>"I farp!"</div> <div> </div> <div>For being a kid with such an amazing vocabulary, a talking wonder if I may say so myself, this is the sweetest little speech impediment I've ever heard. She can't say "sm" and instead says "f". So "smart" turns into "farp". {Let me digress a little to say that yes, we've considered the short-term ramifications of this, and have vetted out the possible ways in which we can get our daughter to swear. Smuck. Yes. We went there. I was not pleased nor proud.}</div> <div> </div> <div>I totally "get it" now when I think back to the story my mom told me once about how I used to say "K-Mout" instead of "K-Mart". She said it was the sweetest thing, and the day I said "Let's go to K-Mart" her heart broke a little. I totally get it. Once she masters "smart" I will probably shed a proverbial tear. </div> <div> </div> <div>These stories are probably only interesting to me, but there you go. A little glimpse of 2 year old Claire.</div> Lindsay Collinshttp://www.blogger.com/profile/11782597955844156580noreply@blogger.com0tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-3123737.post-82135623888843835802012-05-08T11:01:00.000-04:002012-05-08T11:02:13.149-04:00Am I A Queen? Or Is Nick A King?<div>I'm finally getting a tad excited about redecorating our house. The first 4 weeks post-tornado were all about coping with PTSD (sounds dramatic, I know), then the past 4 weeks have been about looking at selections for flooring (wood, tile, carpet, oh my!), kitchen and bathroom cabinets, roofing colors, siding colors, brick colors, oh the list will go on and on and on in the upcoming months. (Cabinet pulls? Wall colors? Light fixtures? Faucets? Doorknobs? SEE WHY I AM STRESSED?)</div> <div> </div> <div>But what is getting me excited is the <em>easy</em> stuff to pick out, like new bedding, or a new headboard, and the such. Which leads me to my point. Do we replace our queen bed with another queen bed. Or do we splurge and upgrade to a king? </div> <div> </div> <div>The apartment we're staying in while we're displaced from our home is furnished with a king bed. It's like Nick and I cross paths in the night, the bed is so huge. Being that I'm pregnant and currently require no less than 4 pillows to sleep (no joke), this extra space is welcome. But is it too big for the long run? Who has strong opinions either way? Does a king take up too much room in your bedroom? Do tell!</div> <div> </div> <div>Also, I sort of wish I had an iota of design skillz right about now. I follow a few blogs of design-y type people, and now that I'm faced with design-y decisions myself, I realize what a true gift that is. I also wish I was more of a decisive person. I'm horrible about making decisions about things that are either expensive (read: if I don't like it in the end, I can't afford to replace it - such as kitchen cabinets, or flooring) or rooms that require a plethora of things going on to come together (again - like the kitchen, where I have to pick out cabinets, counter tops, flooring, all from different contractors who are just selling you their one product - not someone who designs it all together so you know what it'll look like when the room comes together). I'm pretty sure I need to just buy a dart board, pin up some color swatches, and throw some darts. </div> <div> </div> <div>That is, if I can even hit the dart board. I sort of throw like a girl.</div> Lindsay Collinshttp://www.blogger.com/profile/11782597955844156580noreply@blogger.com3tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-3123737.post-1211531430591241362012-04-13T11:21:00.001-04:002012-04-13T11:21:32.049-04:00Conversations in the Car with my Two Year Old<div><strong>Claire</strong> <em>(All concerned-like)</em>: "I don't like that noise."</div> <div>Lindsay: "What is the noise?"</div> <div><strong>Claire</strong>: "It's windy."</div> <div>Lindsay: "Oh, you don't like the wind? Does it scare you?"</div> <div><strong>Claire</strong>: "Yeah... it's scary."</div> <div>Lindsay: "Do you remember when it was really windy outside? We're all better now, though."</div> <div><strong>Claire</strong>: "Yeah."<br>Lindsay: "What did we do when it was windy?"<br><strong>Claire</strong>: "We runned away."</div> <div>Lindsay: "Yes, we ran away, and now we're safe. Where did we run to?"</div> <div><strong>Claire</strong>: "Runned to the floor."</div> <div><strong>Claire</strong> <em>(Slight pause in conversation)</em>: "Mama? Can I see my oatmeal?"<br> </div> <div>And just like that, the conversation was over. I don't know what the experts say about talking to your kids about scary or stressful or near-death experiences. I was just winging it and prompting her with questions I thought were safe and not probing to ask her anything she wasn't already remembering in her tiny, 767-day-old brain. (That's 2 years, 1 month, and 5 days for those busting out the abacus.)</div> <div> </div> <div>She is clearly weary of the wind. I wouldn't go so far as to say she's scared of it, or even terrified, just cautious. When she hears it, it's like her ears perk up like a dogs and she looks toward the window. Bless her poor little heart. She shouldn't be stressed over this, even if just slightly. At one point during the tornado's brief visit on/near/beside our house, while we were cowering on the floor in the corner of the basement, I lifted my head up and looked over my shoulder. It was probably during those few seconds while I watched the actual tornado that she, too, watched the actual tornado. It wasn't just "strong winds due to the tornado", it was "that is a tornado right there". At the time, obviously, I wasn't thinking "don't let her see this for it will scare/scar/traumatize her". I was thinking "this sucks so badly that we're going to die right now." So I can't really reprimand myself for allowing her to see it, but I feel really sorry that she is on alert when she hears even the slightest howl of the wind.</div> <div> </div> <div>But still, I don't think I'm giving her enough credit here. Right after we were done with our ten-second tornado talk, she asked to see her oatmeal. Which I had just microwaved about two minutes before and put into a disposable bowl and had set it on the front seat of the car for the drive to daycare. Because she was so excited to eat the oatmeal and wanted to see it to make sure I hadn't lost it and that it was still waiting for her to eat after our fifteen minute car ride. And then after I showed it to her, she was on to her next task, which is requesting to listen to "Adeley I Heard". Which is, of course, Adele's Someone Like You.</div> <div> </div> <div>Bless her heart indeed.</div> Lindsay Collinshttp://www.blogger.com/profile/11782597955844156580noreply@blogger.com1tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-3123737.post-65575499199272363002012-04-02T20:56:00.000-04:002012-04-02T21:03:00.603-04:00People Are Nice<span style="font-family: Arial, Helvetica, sans-serif;">People are nice. People are very nice. </span><span style="font-family: Arial, Helvetica, sans-serif;"><br /></span><br />
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<span style="font-family: Arial, Helvetica, sans-serif;">In the midst of an anxiety-filled week (see <a href="http://lindsmith.blogspot.com/2012/03/lately-326.html" target="_blank">here</a>, and <a href="http://lindsmith.blogspot.com/2012/03/tornado.html" target="_blank">here</a>), my friend wrote me a concerned email. She was worried that I was super stressed (check!) and reminded me that I needed to de-stress for <a href="http://www.babycenter.com/slideshow-baby-size?slideNumber=14" target="_blank">my avocado baby</a>. She was right! She gave me a couple of ideas; one was to write a gratitude journal, and another was to re-read my blog archives. </span><span style="font-family: Arial, Helvetica, sans-serif;"><br /></span><span style="font-family: Arial, Helvetica, sans-serif;"></span><br />
<span style="font-family: Arial, Helvetica, sans-serif;">An aside, this was nice of her: when she offered up her suggestions, she also acknowledged (I am paraphrasing and putting words into her mouth!) that she was in no shape to be doling out advice because she had no idea what I was going through, and she did ask "am I making things worse [by suggesting these things]?" which I thought was nice of her to say. In fact, she did not make things worse, I truly appreciated her email and words of wisdom. But in hindsight, it was a really nice thing to say. To at least acknowledge that she had no idea what to say in case she said the wrong thing, she preemptively apologized. Don't know why, but it struck me as nice. Aside over.</span><br />
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<span style="font-family: Arial, Helvetica, sans-serif;">OK, so first: gratitude journal. I haven't started one per se, but here is my first list.</span><br />
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<span style="font-family: Arial, Helvetica, sans-serif;">Here are some ways in which people have been unbelievably nice to me and my family:</span><br />
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<li><span style="font-family: Arial, Helvetica, sans-serif;">The tornado happened on Thursday evening. (5:46 p.m. EST to be exact.) By Friday morning, my brother's co-workers had gone to Walmart, purchased clothes and shoes and a gift card for Claire, and also cleaned their kids closets for some hand-me-down clothes for Claire. They don't even know me! They know my brother! How incredibly nice is that? I was beyond touched by this.</span></li>
<li><span style="font-family: Arial, Helvetica, sans-serif;">This morning I received a package at work. I never receive packages at work, so I was instantly curious. The return address label had a man's name that I had never heard of, all the way from Sedona, Arizona. I live in Dexter, Michigan. I have no family nor friends in Arizona, so who is this mystery man? I opened the box and inside was a quilt. There was no card, but one corner of the quilt said it was made by the Red Rocks Quilters. I showed my coworker and we put two and two together. You see, there was a VP of Quality at my company who worked here for about two years. She retired about 1-2 years ago. During her brief-ish stay in Michigan, she lived in Dexter. I'm taking some liberties in connecting the dots here, but I'm assuming she reached out to some people at work (CEO? HR?) to see if anyone at work was affected by the tornado. And she and her quilting club made me a quilt and sent it to my work. Now, I barely worked with this woman. I don't think I ever directly talked with her, I was in a few large meetings where both she and I were in attendance, and she certainly didn't know who I was. So she sent me, a virtual stranger, a quilt in the mail, anonymously. I put two and two together because I mentioned the man's name on the return address and my coworker confirmed that's her husband's name - they have different last names. How touching is that?</span></li>
<li><span style="font-family: Arial, Helvetica, sans-serif;">Claire's school (daycare) had two families that were affected by the tornado. One being us, the other being a family with two kids (and the mom is also 3 months pregnant!). The other family sustained much more damage to their house (I believe a majority of it was leveled) and the mom was home with her kids, as was I. School asked how they could help, and I relayed to them that Claire's books had been trashed by the tornado, and how sad I was about that. So many people donated books to us that she now has more books than she had before. (I feel guilty about this; people were too nice!) Also, people donated cash and gift cards. When the director tried to give half of it to me, I declined, knowing the other family had much worse damage than us. Eventually, there was an envelope with money and gift cards in my school mailbox, so I don't know if the other mom insisted on splitting the money or what. I'll never know. Many people have asked how they can help, and just asked how things are going, which I am so grateful for. Sometimes even just someone genuinely asking how things are going is a gift. Even if I unload on them for a couple of minutes, it takes a weight off of my shoulders that I didn't realize was there. </span><span style="font-family: Arial, Helvetica, sans-serif;"></span></li>
<li><span style="font-family: Arial, Helvetica, sans-serif;">Daycare offered us a tuition break - which is above and beyond wonderful of them. I know that we have homeowners insurance, but I still have a sneaking suspicion that when all is said and done, we may not come out the same money-wise. I feel we'll end up fronting more money out of our pockets than we think we will, so this tuition break is essentially cash back into our wallets, which was so, so, so nice of them.</span></li>
<li><span style="font-family: Arial, Helvetica, sans-serif;">I'm not a popular blogger by any stretch of the imagination, but I have received some really awesome blog comments from <a href="http://matthewandmeghan.blogspot.com/" target="_blank">Meghan</a>, <a href="http://opinionationblog.blogspot.com/" target="_blank">Grace</a>, <a href="http://www.thiscasita.com/" target="_blank">Stephanie</a>, <a href="http://mommapea.blogspot.com/" target="_blank">Jessica</a>, and <a href="http://ambergontrail.com/" target="_blank">Amber</a>. Some of the comments have been downright therapeutic, I swear. I should have paid them to comment. </span></li>
<li><span style="font-family: Arial, Helvetica, sans-serif;">We've received a ton of emails, texts, Facebook messages, calls, gift cards, gifts, flowers, offers to babysit, offers to dog-sit, and other forms of support from friends, family members, and coworkers. Even a friend I haven't talked to or seen in several years sent me a card and gift card. The words people put in the cards have been so, so nice. It makes me wonder how on earth I can ever give back like people have given to me. With each card, gift, or offer of support, I would holler (or text, or email) to Nick and say "Nick! We REALLY need to start giving back." </span></li>
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<span style="font-family: Arial, Helvetica, sans-serif;">To say I am grateful for the support we've received sounds so shallow. But I'm not sure what other word to use, so I'm sticking with it. Grateful. And as I alluded to, it has reminded me that we really need to take a look at how we can give back with our time, resources, strengths, and energy. We owe the world big time. We are so grateful.</span><br />
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<span style="font-family: Arial, Helvetica, sans-serif;">NOW... onto the second idea my friend offered me as a way to de-stress. Re-reading some of my old blog archives. I started blogging in 2001, like, ELEVEN years ago. All here on this very same blogspot page. I never made any attempt to capitalize on blogging like so many others have (smartly) done, it was more of an online journal. So when I look back to archives, such as this, and this, and this [edited: links below], I just laugh and laugh at how... random and loopy I was. Like I said, I wasn't blogging for an audience by any stretch of the imagination, it was just to help me remember random fun times in college, random emo times in college, and other random things that came up. There wasn't (and still isn't) a rhyme or reason to my posts, I don't have a style or a purpose or any incentives to post, I just do it for shits and giggles. </span><br />
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<li><span style="font-family: Arial, Helvetica, sans-serif;">I thought I was being so elusive with my poker analogy at the end... LOL re: 2003. </span></li>
<li><a href="http://lindsmith.blogspot.com/2003/09/i-look-forward-to-wednesdays-most.html"><span style="font-family: Arial, Helvetica, sans-serif;">http://lindsmith.blogspot.com/2003/09/i-look-forward-to-wednesdays-most.html</span></a></li>
<li><span style="font-family: Arial, Helvetica, sans-serif;">Remember how AIM used to be the shiz? In this post I copy and paste my friends away message. OMG, do you remember how crypic we'd be in our away messages? We were so <em>deep </em>in 2001.</span></li>
<li><a href="http://lindsmith.blogspot.com/2002/12/my-ponytail-is-midget-like-inch-long.html"><span style="font-family: Arial, Helvetica, sans-serif;">http://lindsmith.blogspot.com/2002/12/my-ponytail-is-midget-like-inch-long.html</span></a></li>
<li><span style="font-family: Arial, Helvetica, sans-serif;">Oh. My. God. My favorite band in 2001 was LFO? Are you for serious???</span></li>
<li><a href="http://lindsmith.blogspot.com/2001/12/favorite-boy-band-of-2001-lfo.html"><span style="font-family: Arial, Helvetica, sans-serif;">http://lindsmith.blogspot.com/2001/12/favorite-boy-band-of-2001-lfo.html</span></a></li>
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<br />Lindsay Collinshttp://www.blogger.com/profile/11782597955844156580noreply@blogger.com4tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-3123737.post-58059985923406962372012-03-27T16:24:00.000-04:002012-03-27T16:25:08.877-04:00Thirty<div>I turn 30 this week. I had planned all along to take the day off and do some pampering. Now that means more than it did before, and I am really looking forward to it.</div> <div> </div> <div>On the agenda:</div> <div> </div> <div>- <strong>Great Harvest Bread Company</strong> - breakfast</div> <div>- <strong>Coffeeshop</strong> (which one? what to get? I haven't indulged at a coffeeshop in ages, which tells you a lot about what I consider an indulgence, as well as my cheap, nay, <em>thrifty</em> ways) - plan on reading a bit, either The Happiness Project or The Leftovers, both newly purchased on my Kindle Fire.</div> <div>- <strong>1 hour prenatal massage</strong></div> <div>- <strong>Mani/Pedi</strong> (definitely getting the pedi... I'm on the fence regarding the mani) - hello massaging chairs!</div> <div>- <strong>Lunch out</strong>? Kind of lame but I don't have anyone in AA to get lunch with. Perhaps I'll grab a quick light lunch before my massage somewhere.</div> <div>- <strong>Haircut</strong>? To say I need one is probably the understatement of my month. Situation is out of control. I look... homeless. Not in an "uprooted by tornado" way, but in a toothless, down-on-your-luck way. Or like someone on Intervention, which might be worse. (OK, that was mean. I truly do have empathy for people on Intervention.) The place I go to is an Aveda Institute, so it's cheap (there we go again with the cheap) and you leave smelling Aveda-y (heaven) and they have a no-tipping policy!</div> <div>- <strong>Shopping</strong>? Is this going overboard? I want to buy something nice for myself, but I don't know what. Bizarre problem to have, right? Nick is desperate to buy me something nice as well, but I have zero ideas, and he knows darned too well that if he comes home with a <em>mall jewelry store</em> purchase, that he made the wrong move. {Shudder!} I want something classy, but practical. Expensive, but not chain-y. I adore Etsy stuff, but there's just so damn much on that site, that it would take me 11 years to find something nice and pretty and not cheap. (Finding cute cheap stuff on Etsy? Easy peasy! And fun to boot! But I want something <em>nice</em>.)</div> <div>- <strong>Dinner</strong>? Not sure what dinner will entail just yet. At some point, my day of luxury will come to an end and things like "picking up the daughter from daycare" and "taking the dog out to pee" and "making the daughter's lunch for school tomorrow" will creep onto my schedule and I will be brought back to reality. And really, after spending a luxurious (to me) day doing the things above will be lovely, oh so lovely, but eventually I'll want to hang out with Nick and Claire. Maybe we'll go somewhere low-key (mom-speak for "if my 2 year old throws a tantrum, we won't be given the evil side eye and/or be thrown out and/or slightly bicker about who's doing what about said tantrum or who's not doing what about said tantrum) and I'll order dessert first and maybe not even order dinner, which is my idea of heaven. Wait, no, my idea of heaven would be to also have a drink, of the tipsy-inducing variety, but lo, I don't think society, my fetus, or my doctor would approve. So iced tea (of the non-Long-Island variety) will have to suffice. It's a good problem to have, though. ;)</div> <div> </div> <div>Hmmm. What am I missing? </div> Lindsay Collinshttp://www.blogger.com/profile/11782597955844156580noreply@blogger.com4tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-3123737.post-72786458222958253482012-03-26T09:53:00.000-04:002012-03-26T09:54:04.798-04:00Lately - 3/26<div>This morning, my heart dropped when I took Claire into the bagel shop with me, and she commented "Oooh, windyyy," with a hint of concern in her sweet little two-year-old voice. Of course I immediately wondered if she's was remembering the 130 mph winds that tore through our house. Well, really, she'd only remember the part where we were huddled in the corner as the winds blew by the walk-out basement windows, as neither she nor I actually knew they were tearing through our house and roof as well. Or if she was just being a two-year-old who parrots everything she sees and experiences with her ever-growing vocabulary. I don't remember her ever saying "windy" before although in the past I never would have thought twice about the word. Now, I hear the ever-so-slight howl of the cool March wind outside my window while I'm trying to sleep, and must immediately shut them as the sound sends shivers down my back. I don't need an auditory reminder, I have plenty of other reminders, thankyouverymuch. How I ended up on the side of the bed that's closer to the window was probably not intentional, but I might as well be there. Maybe it wasn't just dumb luck that we got out of harm's way just in the nick of time that night, maybe I am some sort of good luck charm. OK no, that's just crazy talking. </div> <div> </div> <div>Someone from my neighborhood set up a Facebook page for us to join and talk about things. Whether it's contractors, insurance companies, donations, 'our feelings', or reaching out to one another, I'm really glad I found the group. Someone posted about being apprehensive about going back to work (check!), about their heart hurting for their children (CHECK!), about feeling like "the rest of the world" doesn't "get it". I don't mean that in a global sense, obviously, but in an inner-circle sense. Someone said (and I paraphrase): "It bugs me to log on to Facebook and see that people are just going about their lives when I am sitting here dealing with this crap." (Check!) Reading that and all of the other posts has at the very least validated my feelings thus far in this ridiculous experience. Yes, I know, no one got hurt and it's just possessions and material things that were lost. For that, I am beyond grateful. I could sit here sobbing all day with gratitude. Literally. You have no idea. But the fact that no one was physically hurt doesn't take away from the emotional toll this has taken on me. And I say that only as someone who was in their house, within 20 feet of the tornado and witnessed it with my very own eyes as my daughter and my dog lay beneath me. The weight of that experience isn't something that goes away just because we're safe and sound and because several days have passed. Honestly, the stress of dealing with re-building our house and re-buying our material things is only superficial stress, and sometimes I choose to focus on that stress instead of the underlying stress of feeling like I cheated death because that's all my body and mind can handle at the moment... the superficial stress. It sounds dramatic, but I really think there are only a few people in my neighborhood who understand it. I think the tornado only hit about a dozen or two houses (but damaged over 100?), so it's just a small group of us who actually have these feelings of "holy shit, that was fucking terrifying and how am I still alive?"</div> <div> </div> <div>Well, I didn't realize I had so much to say this morning. I'm finding it hard to focus on my work this morning. It all started with just a sweet little voice. "Oooh, windyyy."</div> Lindsay Collinshttp://www.blogger.com/profile/11782597955844156580noreply@blogger.com3tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-3123737.post-79828092450042285692012-03-21T16:32:00.000-04:002012-03-21T16:33:04.698-04:00You Know You Are... When...<div><strong>You know you are a mom when...</strong></div> <div>... you long to go to Target <em>by yourself</em> because then you can actually browse in <em>whatever section you desire</em> for as long as you wish... this sounds like a luxury to me.</div> <div><strong> </strong></div> <div><strong>You know you are not yourself when...</strong></div> <div>... your husband buys you (unprompted!) a candy bar while at the grocery store, on two separate occasions, yet the both remain uneaten for <em>over a week</em>. This is not me.</div> <div> </div> <div><strong>You know you are a desk monkey when...</strong></div> <div>... you spend several days outside all day (dealing with tornado-related-crap) and you find yourself EXHAUSTED at 5:00 p.m. from all of that <em>fresh air</em> and <em>sunshine </em>(oh pity me!), only to return to work and sit at a desk staring at a computer for 8 hours and find that the stale office air actually makes you less tired than fresh air and sunshine and even perchance a little more awake and aware. Weird how that works.<em> </em></div> Lindsay Collinshttp://www.blogger.com/profile/11782597955844156580noreply@blogger.com0tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-3123737.post-70131289755158094572012-03-18T11:54:00.000-04:002012-03-18T11:54:07.024-04:00I Continue To Be Alive!<br />
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While I was sitting in my driveway, with a blank look on my face, a couple of older adults with Salvation Army aprons on approached me cautiously, asked if I was the homeowner. I acknowledged that I was, and they handed me a single page with a graph on it about the stages of emotions I'll be going through. They explained I was 'here' on the graph, climbing toward a peak, (as the y-axis grows, as do they 'happy feelings'), and that at the top of the peak is the 'grateful' feeling, but that I would soon plummet down toward a horrible valley of anger and desperation. Well, it sounds really dramatic, but I'm pretty sure I'm still in the "well, I'm alive!" category of gratefulness.<br />
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Here are some more pictures of my house. I don't know why my house was one of the ones that was focused on, I guess it was on CNN, Weather.com, several Michigan newspapers front pages, Univision (some Spanish station/network? my cousin told me...), etc. I think because the front face of the house is brick and the brick is untouched, it makes the house look stoic or something. The fact that the front is untouched does not reflect what it's like inside.<br />
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On my street, we're the 3rd house in, on the right side of the street. On the left side of the street, houses # 1, 2, and 3 are completely demolished. House #1 was leveled by the tornado, House #2 is the same floor plan as our (except not brick) and basically the entire top level of the house was blown off/away, and House #3 (directly across the street from us) is demolished as well.<br />
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On my side of the street, House #1, #2, and #3 (us), and #4 are all uninhabitable, will take 4-6 months to gut and rebuild from the inside and outside. But our houses will not be demolished, they will be restored. I'm not sure what's the better scenario, but that's our deal.<br />
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So here are some pictures of the house. This is mostly for shock factor, I admit. But it's unbelievable! I'm still slightly in denial!<br />
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<tr><td class="tr-caption" style="text-align: center;">My bedroom. OK, I won't lie, it didn't look much nicer than this before the tornado... :P<br />See that bookshelf? That's where my engagement ring was sitting. It was still sitting there when we went up there for the first time. Can you believe that?? The roof was torn off but my ring didn't get picked up. Bizarre.</td></tr>
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<tr><td class="tr-caption" style="text-align: center;">Our backyard. The lower level windows on the right... I was sitting about 5 feet from the windows on a couch that faced the windows and about 10 seconds before the tornado came through I ran from the couch to the corner of the basement, then the tornado hit our house and the windows exploded inwards and the railing of those stairs went through the window. You can see the railing still there sticking out of the window on a diagonal.</td></tr>
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<tr><td class="tr-caption" style="text-align: center;">This is our garage. My car was in the garage, the garage door was down when the tornado hit, but was wrapped around the car in the aftermath.</td></tr>
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<tr><td class="tr-caption" style="text-align: center;">Another shot of the basement, right where I was sitting before it hit. I honestly didn't know what was about to hit.</td></tr>
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<tr><td class="tr-caption" style="text-align: center;">I feel a little weird posting pictures of my neighbor's destroyed house. This is the "House #2" across the street from us. They have the same floor plan as us, their entire 2nd floor was blown off. They were out of town when this happened, so thankfully they didn't have to endure the actual tornado. They have a 2 year old as well.</td></tr>
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<tr><td class="tr-caption" style="text-align: center;">This is House #1 across the street from us. The entire house was leveled by the tornado, so this is post debris-cleanup. I don't know the story behind why this toilet is the only thing left standing? There was an 87 year old man who lived here, his care-taker got him to the basement in time and he walked out of the walk-out basement without a scratch.</td></tr>
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<tr><td class="tr-caption" style="text-align: center;">Our deck, post debris-cleanup.</td></tr>
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<tr><td class="tr-caption" style="text-align: center;">Our family room</td></tr>
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<tr><td class="tr-caption" style="text-align: center;">Family room</td></tr>
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<tr><td class="tr-caption" style="text-align: center;">Bedroom, this must be after it was boarded up. But before it was cleaned up, obviously!</td></tr>
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<tr><td class="tr-caption" style="text-align: center;">This one makes me sad. :( My 2 year old's room. Obviously you can't see much here, it was just really sad to see it.</td></tr>
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<tr><td class="tr-caption" style="text-align: center;">Across the street neighbor's (House #2) bathtub, with our house in the background. Here you can see the garage wrapped around the car.</td></tr>
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<tr><td class="tr-caption" style="text-align: center;">OK, almost done with the pics. </td></tr>
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<tr><td class="tr-caption" style="text-align: center;">This it the deck chair from across the street House #2, which went through our front window. Nucking futs!<br /></td></tr>
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<br />Lindsay Collinshttp://www.blogger.com/profile/11782597955844156580noreply@blogger.com3